Today is our wedding anniversary. Ben and I have actually been married nearly two years--we were officially married on New Year's Eve in 2012--but on this day last year we celebrated our marriage with family and friends. With all of the holidays and birthdays (and soon the birth of our baby girl!) surrounding the date we were officially married, we've decided to celebrate our anniversary on September 1st, the day of our wedding, instead. September is already a special month for us. We met and began dating in September 2007, so celebrating our wedding anniversary in September, too, just feels right.
Ben and I talked about marriage before our pregnancy with Isaac, but when we became pregnant first, we knew we wanted to wait until after Isaac was born to be married. Both events--the birth of our baby boy and our wedding--were tremendously important to us, and they each deserved to be celebrated in their own right.
We had an intimate wedding ceremony, inviting only our families to join us as we exchanged vows. Everything about the ceremony was meaningful to us, and because of that, I think it was my favorite part of our wedding day. We were married on Flagstaff mountain in Boulder, outside of a small stone shelter built in 1919. I dressed inside the beautiful little building with my mom, my stepmom, my sister, and my cousin Jessie there to help. We had no wedding attendants, but Isaac and our nieces all walked down the aisle before me, and my sister sang while my cousin's husband, Kyle, played the guitar. My my dad officiated, and Ben and I exchanged the vows we wrote together in front of those we love the most. The ceremony really represented who we are as a couple, and looking back, I really cherish what we made of it.
The reception was held in our backyard, and we have our family to thank for their hard work in the week leading up to the wedding to get it ready for the event. It was beautiful, full of fresh potted flowers, wood chargers made by my uncle, succulents I grew all summer long, and many other handmade decorations. We served barbecue and local beer, hand-chosen by Ben, and for our little man, an ice cream truck from the local ice cream shop came to serve dessert. The night was spent with as many of our closest friends and family members as could make the trip to Colorado. We ate, drank, laughed and danced--the makings of a fine night, if you ask me. It's hard to believe it's already been a year since then.
Now here we are, one year later, about to grow from a family of three to a family of four. I couldn't ask for a better man to raise my children with, to walk side by side through this life, with all its ups and downs. Happy anniversary, my love. Here's to many more.